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After a failed pitch competition in April, I was approached by an investor who wants to co-found a company with me based on my pitch....

Inspired Action
Inspired action is a flow of creative productive energy free from negative emotions and blocks. As it is a crucial for high-impact...

Don’t listen to anyone, or persistence of vision.
Last week I met with Coen and Karin, Dutch overlanders who have been traveling for the past 19 years in their truck 🚍. Battling the...

It's not personal, it's not about me.
- What does it mean to take things personally? - It means to relate external events and behaviors to my personal internal narrative about...
Get to one yes.
"In logic, a counterexample is an exception to a proposed general rule or law, and often appears as an example which disproves a...


Letter #2: Accept It All.
“We are more often frightened than hurt, and we suffer more from imagination than from reality.” — Seneca The relationship I have with my...
Letter #1: Why do we always want things to be different?
Prelude: For the past nine days, I have been reading one Boron Letter a day (letters from a jailed marketer to his son). I really like...


Fear & Shame Systems
Although it takes energy and direction to break away from the fear & shame systems, it seems to be the way to find something actually...


Day 19-31/348: Two Games
Today I talked to my mom and I realized that she was not that excited about the great things I am doing. That is because she doesn't care...
Skateboarding Accident #3: Will for meaning has to come from your “self”.
Pain is unavoidable. The systems that we can put in place to help our future selves deal with them is possible. The more well-designed...
Skateboarding accident #2: Every system is inherently selfish.
Fully internalizing the fact that viable external systems are inherently selfish and pursuing their best self-interest is a liberating...

Skateboarding Accident Trilogy #1: Ignored cues POP with accidents
POP! You just had an accident. The negative emotions that have been silently building up exploded and this communicates a message you...
Day 149: The Birthday Edition: The best gift I have given myself
It was my birthday last week. This post is about the progress I have made this year. This has been the most transformative year of my...
Day 120: I am the Compounding Machine.
How I look, how I think, how I see myself, how I approach work, how I interpret certain events is all compounded from the micro-decisions...

Day 113: Three steps towards getting to the goal.
One: Define the long-term goal that is irrespective of how you get it. Two: Define what needs to be done/learned to get there. Three:...
Day 107: What does it take?
What does it actually take to achieve this X? Over the last days, I have tried to adopt the mentality of asking myself the “What does it...
Day 99: Deep Human Desires
Realizing the underlying deep desires that I have helps me reframe the questions I am asking about how to actually satisfy them. Today I...


Day 98: The woe of groundless hopes.
Actively watching out for groundless hopes I might be having is the best way to act responsibly and lovingly towards actualizing the...

Day 76:The 1% Way
Incremental continuous change for the better across all aspects of life. "Everyday, everybody, everywhere improvement.", as Kaizen...
Day 75: 5 minute no content break
Work for 25 minutes (or other time session that fits you) and then take an absolutely no content break to fully rest. At our house we are...
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